Love: Several Stories About Part 1

Welcome to Man Reason!!! Sorry, it’s been a while since I posted last, but I have been busy at my other job trying to move up in the world. To live comfortably is my goal in life. The problem is that that takes hard work and dedication and time. Time is something I seem not to have a lot of because of the hard work and dedication. What else takes hard work, time, and dedication is love. Love is what? What is love? Everyone’s definition is going to be different. This post will start a series of post dedicated to “love.” Welcome to Man Reason!!!

Love: Several Stories About Part 1

Love Is like a Light Switch Part 1

A light switch turns on and off. Love, a feeling, an emotion, a belief is expected to be controlled much like a light switch. Only in romantic love, is one expected to turn the Love Switch off for anyone else except for your spouse. It is possible that you can love more than one brother, one sister, one parent, and/or one relative. This love is Family Love. It is also possible to have a Friend Love for someone. A best friend could be looked at as close as a relative. It is possible to have several Friend-mances. Then there is Romantic Love, the love between two people in a romantic relationship. While it is possible for you to turn the Romantic Love Switch on and off multiple times for multiple people, it is deemed not possible for you to have more than one switch on at a time unlike in the other forms of love. By having multiple switches on romantically, it is assumed that neither nor any of these switches are true love.

Love is equal to hate. Hate is equal to love. Wrong. There is Romantic Hate like there is Romantic Love. Romantic Hate would be an ex-girlfriend or an ex-boyfriend that maybe broke your heart. Every time you see them you may wish the ills of the world on them. I’m talking true romantic hate. Not someone you dated for a couple of months. I’m talking someone you married, had children with, and they left you with no explanation. Now your life is in the dumps, you went bankrupt, and your kids are out of control. I’m talking that kind of hate. While this scenario can and could happen to you several times, it is possible for someone to hate the spouses in this scenario equally. While it is impossible, supposedly, to love two people who both romantically treat you great.

Does the light always stay on? There are days where you may want to be in the dark so to speak. The light switch turns off. Now it is dark. Maybe turn the light off for a brief moment. That too can happen to love. One minute you may love someone the next you don’t then another minute goes by and you love them again. It is possible in a happy committed romantic love life that the Love Switch may turn off occasional. This is not a problem. The problem is when the switch doesn’t ever come back on.

Love is like a light switch.

Two Different Version of the Same Love Part 1

People have different needs and wants. People also have different views of love. Below are a love lesson me and my wife did, explaining how we met and fell in love and what we were looking for. My story is so much truer than hers though. LOL!!! Can I use that if I’m not texting?

From the moment my eyes were upon her, unfortunately she did not feel the same, since when I opened my mouth I came across the wrong way. Thankfully, that would not be my first and only chance to make an impression. Luckily for me she gave me a second, third, fourth, fifth, I actually lost count on how many chances I was given in order to impress. I tried and tried to impress her with my wit, being funny, and being charming. None which worked. Eventually, I just started to be myself. This to me was the turning point in not only us becoming a couple, but also in me seeing what I wanted in a spouse. Throughout my life, it would seem I was just an actor in a relationship. Never being myself. With her, I saw that the most important thing I was looking for was someone whom allowed me to be myself. Once I stop pretending to be someone I was not, and started being myself, we became closer. - Man Reason

Once he arrived the day after the Kentucky Derby. I didn’t like the idea of having men come over to my apartment since my two kids would be home. Relationships are not guaranteed to last, and as a mother, I did not want to introduce my children to multiple men. Allowing him to come over was a huge step to me, but I knew he was the one. This was the first time I had allowed him to come over to my apartment. This would be the first and only time I would ever have to ask him to come over. From that day, he never left. Once there it was like we were already a family. My kids instantly took a liking to him, since he acted as a grown kid himself. Bonding with them was easy. Over the phone, he would talk about having kids, seeing him with my kids, showed that he was a natural father. From that day, I was in love. Real love.- Ideal Wifey

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Man Reason Shorts

Welcome to Man Reason!!! Changing things up this post. I just wanted to put this out there and then take the gloves off and hit the world with a crossover posting all about "love." It all will be explained later, but first here is the first installment of the Man Reason Shorts. 

Man Reason Shorts

Sometimes, things just pop into my head, and I am like I don’t really want to post a whole blog page on this idea yet, but I do want to just throw it out there. Here at Man Reason, I will call these post Man Reason Shorts. Basically I will be posting the idea or the post title and write a little about it. Then later I will post a whole post. So with that said, let’s get started.

1. Until college football has a playoff, it will never be better than pro football.

I’m not a fan of the Bowl Champion Series (BCS). Reason being that the two teams who get to play for the national college football title are picked. You don’t truly earn the title. The little teams never get the chance of playing for the national title, only the big name teams in the big name conferences. I could accept the BCS more if before the season, the fans are told only these teams can play for the national title. Everyone knows already that this is an unwritten rule. No matter how well a little unknown, even if unbeaten, even if this team beat a nationally ranked team, this team will never get a chance to play for the national title. Seems a little unfair? Imagine pro football being set up the same way as college football, would you still watch the super bowl?

2. The Secret Society

Man Reason will be doing an in-depth look at the secret society known as the Olympus Society. This society is notoriously known for it’s in centric parties and unbelievable hierarchy set up. I’ve been doing research on this group for months now and have became very intrigued with the whole concept of a secret society.

3. Breast or Butt: What do you find more appealing?

Growing up, I was a huge breast man, but then I became a butt man when the butt crazed kicked off. I was in love with Jennifer Lopez. Seriously. Now I am confused. I like them both now. I can’t even decide which one I like the most. I see a phat ass and I am like, “whoa, can I touch that?” If I see some nice tits, I want to suck on them and rub on them. I need to do some research and figure out which one I really like the most.

4. Slut Transformation

Ok, so my wife want take the dick. So what do I do? Enter operation slut transformation. This will be a 12 step program to transform your wife into a slut Man Reason style.

5. The Art of Flirting

Here Man Reason will be looking into the Art of Flirting focusing on how just a simple comment can lead to a flirtation relationship.

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Brag-o-Meter

Before i get started, i would like to tell all my readers and followers about two new Man Reason sites, The Ideal Wifey and Ales and Asses. These sites will continue to grow the Man Reason empire.

Welcome to Man Reason!!! I was watching the FMC channel, Life After Film School, episode featuring Diablo Cody and they asked her a question about writing and she said, “Writing is not hard.” Then she said some other stuff, and I was like, finally someone who understands.

My first postitorial was about how the newspaper is dead and how I was told to write a blog like I were writing for a journal or newspaper. Well I have always felt that you should write what you feel and don’t worry about styles and proper techniques. Just write and have fun. I write what is fun for me and write it how I fell. There isn’t a lot of rewrites here. Yes I check my spelling, but that is it. Welcome to Man Reason!!!

Brag-o-meter

I started with top ten man reason fantasies, but that turn into a question, “Why are these the top ten man reason fantasies?” I had a talk with my celebrity friend that I can not mention his name yet about kissing and telling. This led me to what I am calling “The Brag-o-Meter.” The Brag-o-Meter is what level of “brag” you get for fulfilling these fantasies. So this is still the Top Ten Man Reason Fantasies Brag-o-Meter.

10. Athlete: Must be on the level of collegiate to professional. Cheerleaders are included in this group. The fantasy behind sleeping with an athlete is that they should be in shape, flexibility, and have a great body. Brag-o-Meter 40

9. Stripper: Professional only. No amateur. The thrill of just visiting a stripe club is the thought that one day you will be fulfilling an ultimate male fantasy. Your friends will congratulate you, while women will see you as sick for such an act. Strippers for an average man are as close to a porn star that they may be able to come in contact with. Strippers get paid by selling you the fantasy that they love you for you and not your money. To actually have sex in the champagne room, would make one feel that she really did love me for me and not for my money. Brag-o-meter 48.6

8. Your Friend’s Mom or Sister: Must have some parental duties and responsibilities to be considered a mother. A cougar mom would be a double whammy. Fantasy, spending the night at your friend’s house and your friend’s hot sister just happens to find you irresistible. The problem with this bragging right is that your friend may not be as excited as you for penetrating mother or his sister, but the other friends within your group will love the idea continually commenting, especially around the friend who’s mom or sister you sexed, about you sexing the mom or sister. Brag-o-meter 50

7. Professional: Doctor, nurses, cop, someone with a lot of schooling, or wears a uniform. They say girls love a guy in uniform, so do guys. Male fantasy, getting pulled over by a female cop, only to get out of a ticket by providing more than just license and registration. Why are nurse outfits so popular in sex shop? The fantasy is that while you lie in the bed, the nurse will come relieve your pain. Brag-o-meter 55

6. Boss: What extra benefit can you get when the boss has you as their personal sex puppet? Bragging rights within the office will be more appreciated with co-workers than people whom do not work with you. Though this to can lead to conflict especially if you do really start receiving extra benefits on the job. The fantasy is all based on power. The Boss who is control, losing control for you? You will feel like you are the boss instead. Brag-o-meter 60

5. Twins: Not at the same time, that is another fantasy. But if they are twins, is everything really the same? Bragging rights are high, especially if you get both at the same time, but for this bragging right I am talking about at two separate times. Not just two sisters. Twins. Remember the old Coors Light commercial where the singer always ends with “and twins!” Two is always better than one, especially two of the same kind. Brag-o-meter 79.5

4. Porn Star: This is supposed to be the most talented person at this art form. Porn is an art. Male fantasy is that this person gets paid to do this and so they should be the best at it. A lot of guys would say that they could not make this person their girlfriend, but that is a lie. Bragging rights are so high on this, and the only question you will ever receive about it is “how do you feel about other guys doing her?” Once you get over this jealous thing, then brag. Brag-o-Meter 80

3. Celebrity: Movie star, musician, news personality, etc. To be in this category one must be tabloid-ish, and have a presence on television. Typically these people are considered the most gorgeous, rich, and unattainable. To be able to tell your friends that you were with a celebrity is an achievement above achievements. Brag-o-Meter 85

2. Threesome: Second on the list. Imagine twins here together. Friends. Sisters. Strangers. Whatever the case two for one is always better than one on one. Even if it’s not at the same time lets say orgy style and/or switching, or swinging. They key to this fantasy is multiple partners at the same time together, or close enough. I’m not talking that you had sex with two different women in the same day. Brag rights are high on this one. It is ultimate male fantasy, almost. Brag-o-Meter 90

1. The Perfect Spouse: What I mean here is that your spouse is the ultimate fantasy if she allows you to live out your fantasies and/or participates in the fantasies also. Imagine the bragging rights you would have if your spouse said lets do a threesome with a stripper, or a foursome with twins. Or what if your spouse likes to role play and she dresses up as a cop, super hero, etc. This is the ultimate male fantasy because it is the most unobtainable fantasy on this list. Sure you could get a woman to dress up occasionally, and sure there are swingers in the world. Convincing your sweet innocent spouse to not only do those things and more is and maybe the hardest thing you will ever do. This is the ultimate fantasy because eventually most men want to be married, but the price of marriage is giving up all other women and sex. Married men like to say what their wife does or will not do. If you are able to say that your wife will do anything, then you will be the dominate male. Also a wife who is willing to do more sexually is always seen as more loving than a wife who doesn’t. Brag-o-meter 99.9

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The Lion, the Smith, and the Hobo

Welcome to Man Reason!!! I haven’t gotten into the Man Reason's reasoning to why there is no such thing as “love.” Today, though while I was working on the “love” post, I started to think, “How long is a relationship?” Then I thought “how to know when your relationship is over.” I don’t mean like over to where you need to break up or divorce, I was thinking over like you are in a relationship by title but there is no relationship type activity happening in your relationship. Get it? No? Well, i'll post something about that one day. Today though i want to focus on your spouse leaving you and the three people that you could be left for.


There are three people that your spouse will leave you for. These people are called EX-ponents. “EX” because you will become the ex-spouse and “ponent” as in opponent. The EX-ponent is just that, your competition that will lead you from a relationship into single life again. To keep you from wondering why your spouse left you, the only thing you need to do is know who they left you for. Even if your spouse did not leave you for someone, believe me they did mentally. You were not the person your spouse needed you to be. Welcome to Man Reason!!!

The EX-ponent:

The Lion, the Smith, and the Hobo

The Hobo: This it the person who will treat your spouse worse than you. Crazy thing is your spouse will enjoy being treated worse. During their relationship, constant mention of how you treated your spouse will arise. The Hobo’s unwillingness to treat your ex-spouse any where close to how you treated them and unwillingness to care about the negative comparison to you is the Hobo’s most appealing asset to your ex-spouse. The Hobo is known for taking from your ex-spouse with little return, yet your ex-spouse will be more inclined to give without receiving even if this was a pervious problem in your relationship with your ex-spouse.

Pros: Room to grow and change. A Hobo is at the lowest level, it is possible in some cases of a Hobo to grow or be molded into some one better.

Cons: Refusal to grow. The same thing that could be seen as a possible positive is also the most negative aspect of the Hobo. They have opportunity to grow, but they normally choose not to. Convincing the Hobo to better themselves is a challenge that most are willing to take and fail miserably.

The Smith: Titled the Smith because Smith is a common name. Hence the Smith is the common male equal to you. This person does everything similar to you, has equal qualities, body features, etc. The Smith is the most common of all EX-ponents. Your spouse will leave you for someone believed to be a Lion, but in the end the will have the qualities of a Smith. The Smith is deceiving to that sense.

Pros: The Smith is a jack of all trades, this leads to the deception of Lion status. The Smith is able to have a long lasting relationship.

Cons: The Smith is an average guy. Well above the Hobo when it comes to goals, but well below the Lion when it comes to appeal. The Smith is marriage material but most will want the Smith to be more Lion-like causing problems within the relationship.

The Lion: The dominate male. Cocky to say the least. Powerful. Playboy. Rich. Womanizer. Debonair. Suave. Prince Charming. He is everything you are not and more. This is the dream guy of your spouse. If your spouse is to leave you for him, you wouldn’t even complain. The Lion has a romantic side and a bad guy side. He is the ultimate shape shifter depending on the woman. The Lion is the man kicking sand in your face on the beach.

Pros: The Lion is the ultimate guy. A relationship with the lion is what your spouse dreams of.

Cons: Due to the Lion’s massive appeal, he is hard to trust. The price of being wanted is trust issues. The Lion typically will have several unsuccessful relationships. In the end, in order for the Lion to have a meaningful relationship, he will conform into a Smith. Lions are trendy. Today’s Lion could be a rich guy, tomorrow that trend will a guy who is a thug. Once the Lion is out of style, he loses his appeal and becomes a Hobo.

The Lion, the Smith, and the Hobo

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Levels of Sexuality

Levels of Sexuality


My name is Mante. Don’t ask me how, but soon I learned why I am at this place of lust. Through gates of gold I entered and wandered amisely around, not alone but with others whom seemed as lost as I was. Their skin was fair, their actions were pure, but without a doubt we were all new here.

“Virgin?”

I turned to see a beautiful woman standing in front of me. To say she was a goddess would be an understatement, though she was dressed similarly to a Greek goddess.

“Excuse me?” I asked. “Um, I mean no,” I replied in a deep mannish voice. Whether she thought it was the truth or a lie I could not tell by her calm smile.

“Have you ever had sex outside?” she asked.

“Excuse me?”

“Have you ever had a threesome?” she continued.

“Wait a minute. Look, I like a fast woman and all but why are you asking all these questions?”

“Oh, I am sorry. Allow me to introduce you to your level of sexuality. I am your guide. We will journey each level until we find the appropriate one for you.”

With those words, my “guide” gestured toward a winding stair case. Here is where our journey begins.

Welcome to Man Reason!!! I have always wanted to write short stories, movie scripts, television shows, novels, plays, etc. This was my intro to my Levels of Sexuality. The idea was a Dante’s Inferno type story to explain different levels of sexuality. Welcome to Man Reason!!!

LEVELS OF SEXUALITY
Book 1

Strip away all clothes and morals, then how do you judge levels of sexuality? I pondered this and decided that the only way to judge how sexual you are is by what you are willing and able to do. The reason I chose this way to judge sexuality is because not all religions, societies, and beliefs are similar. In order to make them similar, I stripped those away, as well as clothes. Now we are all equal, but sexually we are not in the sense that I had to leave choice and ability.

In order to move up levels one must accomplish the goals set on each level. It is impossible to move backwards levels, even though one has the choice not to do the sexual acts that enable one to move up to new levels.

LEVELS

Virgin: Never experienced a physical sexual act. Someone on this level thinks continuously about sex but never acts on any sexual acts. The beginning of all fantasy thoughts begin here. To move up from this level one must have their first sexual experience then continue to have sexual experiences.

Average: An average person has basic sexual experience. This includes basic sexual positions, missionary, doggy style, cowgirl, etc. An average person will engage in oral, anal, and has sex toys typically used for masturbation and additional stimulation during sexual acts with partner. To move up from this level one must begin experimenting sexually, have multiple sexual partners at once, and begin participating in sexual fetishes.

Experimental: Someone who is experimental will take on multiple partners at once, experiment in orgies, engage in fetishes, and possibly experiment with their sexuality. To move up from this level one must lose all sexual restraints, have constant sex with the goal being to pleasure their partner/s completely.

Nympho: In order to move up one must not have any restraints sexually. Having multiple partners and having constant sex is the goal of someone on this level. To be on this level one takes pride in the fact of their sexual exploits, in being sexual experienced and sexually satisfying their partners. Someone on this level gains sexual gratification on a level higher than anyone after each sexual act. Most people on this level would be considered to have a sexual addict.

Book 1 Concluded....To be continued....

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Fulfillment: The Art of Cheating

Welcome to Man Reason!!! As long as there are relationships, there will be cheating. People cheat; it’s a fact of life like death. Accept it.

FULFILLMENT: THE ART OF CHEATING

The misconception is that the only form of cheating is physical. Let’s clear that up with first defining cheating.

Cheating: Fulfilling one’s needs with someone other than your spouse.

Now understand that cheating is more than physical. Example, suppose you enjoy golfing, but your spouse, whom has the ability to play golf, refuses to play with you. Instead, you play golf with someone other than your spouse. The need is to play golf, it is being fulfilled by someone other than your spouse, and therefore this would be cheating.

Need+Fulfillment-Spouse=Cheating

The question posed to Man Reason was:

… why is there a nonstop need to have it and from numerous partners?


I know what your spouse is thinking right now, “That’s bullshit. Playing golf and sleeping with someone is not the same thing.”

Most couples have a clear understanding to what is considered cheating in their relationship, though what is cheating to some is not cheating to others, yet the equation is always the same.

To answer the question, the “nonstop need” is a need not being fulfilled; therefore someone will engage in cheating. In some cases the need continues not to be met, which leads to “numerous partners.” In order to end the cycle, one most fulfill the need. In order to fulfill this need, one must know what the need is that needs to be fulfilled. Once the need has been identified one must then perform the action that will fulfill the need. After the action is complete, the person will enter a conscious state of need fulfillment or an unfulfilled state. This cycle is what I refer to as the Fulfillment Cycle. If the need is not fulfilled the cycle will continue until the need has been fulfilled. The fulfillment of a need is not in the action but in the mental state afterwards.

THE FULFILLMENT CYCLE

IDENTIFYING THE NEED

Think hard. I mean reach deep into yourself and find the need that needs to be fulfilled. In great detail, describe how this need must be fulfilled. It is important to have a clear understanding to how the need must be fulfilled. The reason being is that if the need is not fulfilled exactly then there will be a continual need to fulfill the need. Identifying the need is the most important and hardest part of the Fulfillment Cycle.

THE ACTION

After the need has been identified, then one can perform the action to fulfill the need. Remember that in order to fulfill the need, the action has to be exactly like the need.

MENTAL STATE

Only after the action is performed will you be able to determine if the need is fulfilled. The action does not fulfill the need; a need can only be fulfilled mentally. If the person fills that the need has been fulfilled, the person will experience a euphoria type felling. If the person does not feel that the need has been fulfilled, then that person will feel a frustrated type feeling. In the case of most cheaters, this feeling of need unfulfillment is typically mistaken for guilt.

As I have tried to stay away from mentioning sex, I will use sex as an example here. Assume you have a sexual fantasy need to perform an act of sex in a park. Masturbation to the thought of the idea will not fulfill the mental need that would be needed to fulfill the fantasy. Until the action of the sexual act in the park is fulfilled exactly as the fantasy, you will always have the need to fulfill this fantasy. Even though masturbation does fulfill the physical needs it does not fulfill the mental urges of a sexual fantasy.

Conclusion

As long as you can think, you will always have needs. Society has made the fulfillment of some needs taboo. What Man Reason recommends is that the best option is to be truthful to yourself and try to fulfill your needs. No I am not recommending you cheat, but as I said, each couple has their own beliefs to what is and what isn’t cheating. What couples normally do not have is how to deal with those urges. You see when it comes to a relationship there are some things you can talk about and some things you cannot. Cheating hardly comes up in a relationship conversation unless it is actually happening. Few couples sit down and talk about how to avoid cheating, or the feelings that lead to cheating. In my opinion it is possible to have a happy fulfilling relationship, and still be able to fulfill your needs. Relationships take work and compromise.

You will never have a fulfilling relationship until you indentify what a fulfilling relationship is.

Communication is the key to a successful relationship. I have no sympathy or empathy for someone who is cheated on by someone who has tried to open the line of conversation attempting to talk about the wants and needs of themselves and for the relationship.

Man Reason


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Lights, Camera, Action: Why You Cannot Make a Good Home Porn Movie

Welcome to Man Reason!!! Before I get to my topic, I like to do what is kind of like an editorial, blogitorial, postitorial. Pick one, I prefer postitorial. Anyways, so on the last post, there was this comment.

Anonymous said...

Why don't you focus more on sex and why! Meaning why is there a nonstop need to have it and from numerous partners?


So that will be my next focus point. Gotta do some research and take some polls on why do people cheat? I’m not saying why do men cheat, but why do people cheat.

Also be looking out for my short story post explaining the Levels of Sexuality. Call it Man Fiction, or Post Fiction.

Last of the new ideas I got brewing in my head is a post with post ideas. I’m calling it Man Reason Shorts. This post will feature just post topic ideas, and maybe a short synopsis about the idea or the direction I will be taking the idea.

This really wasn’t a postitorial, more like an advertisement for the future.

Lights, Camera, Action: Why You Cannot Make a Good Home Porn Movie

Plain and simple, you cannot make a good porn movie because of your lighting, camera angles, and action. I’m not talking about a movie where you hide the camera behind your stuffed animals or have your friend record you from inside the closet. Nor am i talking about the video where you kept yourself hidden from the camera’s view, only shooting the girl so you could show your boys later. Lastly, I am not talking about most of the home amateur videos that populate the amateur scene right now. What I am talking about, is a porn movie so good that you could sell it. One that you would not be ashamed to show your mother. What I will be describing is how to make a home porn movie that will accomplish your video making fantasies.

LIGHTS

Porn and Hollywood movies are lit brightly unless the lighting is to achieve some effect. Porn movies especially are lit so you can see what is going on. If you were to look on most online amateur sites, the only lighting typically is from the normal house lighting or sun light shining through the nearby window. Unless you plan on purchasing a light kit, which some you can find for under $500, then I would suggest checking your camera settings and making sure you adjust the settings to the type of light source you are shooting under. Remove all shades and covers from over the light source. Another technique to try is bouncing the light source off the wall. If you still are unable to achieve half way descent lighting, the easy thing you can do is move the light source closer to the subjects or the subjects closer to the lights. And also don’t forget to white balance.

CAMERA

Remember that there are two or more cameras recording a typical porn movie. Unless you are into POV movie style then a tripod is the only option to obtain similar camera angles. Achieving the angles in the movies would take a lot of stop and starting back up. Stop, move the camera, shoot, stop, move the camera, shoot. Unless you got an actor that is willing, this will become boring and time consuming. But if you doing POV then this shouldn’t be problem you just have to practice on getting your angles and learning how to reduce the camera shake. My suggestion, just explain to your actor that you are trying to achieve a certain angle and explain why. Also I recommend finding a movie with that particular shot and showing your actor. That way it is known exactly what you are trying to achieve.

ACTION

Okay, first you have to convince your actor to let you record the two of you having sex. The second thing is, as I said before, you are attempting to make a “real porn movie” not an amateur movie. With that said, what does a movie porn or Hollywood have? If you said acting, then you are correct! Pop in any porn and you will hear the actors moaning, groaning, and talking dirty. There will be extreme sexual positions, don’t try these at home type, and an intensity to the sex that is beyond what most people do, ever. Now go to any amateur site and notice the lack there of. Typically what you see is real sex. Porn sex and real sex are two different things. Before you begin, tell your actor, “Over act please!” Tell what you need to be said, and how you need it to be said. Have you heard of an acting coach? Well that is what you are. Teach your actor how, when, where, and why. As silly as it sounds, the sound will make the video less silly. Getting over the “this is stupid” or “I sound stupid” will be the hardest part of all of this.

In short, the only way to make a good home porn movie is with practice. Practice with everything from the lighting to the acting. Act like you are having the best sex you have ever had. Always remember that it is a movie for you to enjoy. What’s the point of making the movie if you don’t?

Man Reason

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Welcome Plus Football

Welcome to Man Reason!!!!

Well I was told that to have a successful blog, I need to write it as if I am writing for a newspaper or journal. To that I say, what’s a newspaper? Recently, a friend came to me and said, “Look at this,” showing me what resembled a “newspaper.”

He continued, “What happened to the newspaper? I have never seen it this small” Truthfully, me neither. The paper that I were use to as a kid were pages and pages, but now it was just a page.

Yes the paper is dead, so why would I write my blog like a paper?

THIS IS MY FIRST POST!!!!!

I’m going to start this blog with my football Man Reason predictions.

College BCS Championship: USC vs. Florida

NFL Superbowl: Tennessee vs. Carolina


Here’s my friend and guest blog author plus another good friend of mine picks. We have a “bragging rights” competition going on here.

Big Dave

College BCS Championship: Florida vs. Ohio St

NFL Superbowl: Tennessee vs. Dallas

Mr. Dillen

College BCS Championship: Florida vs. Penn St

NFL Superbowl: Pittsburgh vs. Philly

Welcome to Man Reason!!!!!!!!!!!

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